Kenyan actress, musician and writer Habida has opened up and revealed the reason as to why having a man is a must.
Speaking during an interview with our very own Journalist Silva Kido, she said that as far as it is not a necessity to many, having a man in their life is essential because they might need one in the long run as it is always that way that a woman has to have a man in the long run so that they help each other in making life easier and bearable.
“You definitely need a man to go through life with, that’s how we were created man woman…all these women who are saying I don’t need a man are lying.” Habida said.
According to her, All women claiming they can stand alone are completely lying and there’s no such thing that they are well off, She believes all women need men for companionship as well as help in providing for their needs.
She also shared her perception about marriage, hinting that as far as marriage isn’t easy and one should persevere, it doesn’t mean that one should stay in a toxic kind of relationship or marriage that isn’t contributing to their happiness.
She advised women to not have second thoughts about exiting a toxic marriage, especially one that they have tried all they can and has failed.
“One thing I’ll say is take care of yourself……. Us we were taught in our time kuvumilia…. But things I’ve changed… Men have changed and what women suffer is a bit crazy, so obviously don’t stay anywhere where there’s trauma.
But also don’t go too quick to give you have to make sure you’ve done everything you can so that Ukitoka hapo…….”
She also explained that divorces are not only happening on top celebrities and artists alone they are everywhere and the reason as to why they are not being recognized is because for the public they are not being watched by the camera and posted for anyone to see but indeed people are partying ways way more than even the celebrities are.
This year recorded quite a number of top Kenyan influencers and celebrities breaking up out of different reasons, and that doesn’t look to have been the end of it.
She called out to the Kenyan influencers, urging them to not post everything that happens in their life on social media because of the number of people who are looking up to them, she feels like what the celebrities post on their pages truly influence other people’s life either positively or negatively urging them to be considerate.