Kenyan Socialite Amber Ray has revealed the experience she went through when she got her first child.

Amber Ray, whose engaged to Kennedy Rapudo has said that her first pregnancy was a hard pill for her given the circumstances she was under.

Writing on her Instagram page, She has said that at the time when it all happened, she wasn’t prepared for it and never even managed the heights the pregnancy could take her.

“When I had my first child, I was very young and very Poor😩 life tasted like lemons and I had no one to turn to even the people I thought I could count on, but I kept pushing and since I love kids and a big family.”

That’s when she learned the hard way and promised herself that she will never subject herself in such a situation ever again, of course accepting that people change and cant be depended on she has encouraged her fans that if you want to start a family you ought to consider being financially stable first.

“I promised myself that by the next time, God blesses me with another baby… I must be financially stable coz at the end of the day people change, and unfortunately we can do nothing about it……. Don’t get me wrong, I’m in the most amazing relationship right now, but all I’m trying to say is before you make that big step in your life…. make sure you are ready for it all.”

And asking her fans to let her live her life as she deserves every moment of it.