Gospel singer Mercy Masika’s upcoming Becoming a Wife masterclass has opened up a wider conversation about marriage, mentorship and the expectations placed on women in relationships. While some may see the programme as an opportunity for women to learn and grow, others are asking why similar lessons aimed at men are not receiving the same attention.
The discussion gathered momentum after Masika shared details of the initiative on Instagram, reflecting on the guidance she received during her own marriage journey and announcing the involvement of Lady Bishop Kathy Kiuna.
Highlights
- Mercy Masika’s upcoming Becoming a Wife masterclass has triggered mixed reactions.
- The singer highlighted the value of mentorship in her marriage journey.
- Lady Bishop Kathy Kiuna is expected to take part in the classes.
- Critics are questioning why relationship programmes often focus on preparing women for marriage.
- The discussion has renewed conversations about shared responsibility between partners.
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Mercy Masika’s Masterclass Opens a Wider Conversation
Kenyan gospel singer Mercy Masika has sparked online discussion after announcing her Becoming a Wife masterclass, an initiative focused on preparing women for marriage.
Masika shared the announcement on Instagram, where she reflected on the importance of having people who can offer guidance and mentorship along the journey of marriage. She also revealed that Lady Bishop Kathy Kiuna would be involved in the programme.
Although the idea of learning from experienced women may appeal to those preparing for marriage, the announcement has prompted questions about the way relationship advice is often presented.
Why Are Women at the Centre of Marriage Preparation?
Some of the criticism surrounding the programme centres on what critics view as an imbalance in conversations about marriage. They question why women are frequently encouraged to attend classes on becoming better wives, while comparable programmes teaching men how to become better husbands appear to receive less attention.
The debate touches on a broader issue: whether marriage preparation should place more emphasis on women’s roles or encourage both partners to develop the skills needed for a healthy relationship.
Communication, emotional maturity, financial responsibility and mutual respect are not responsibilities that belong to one partner alone. They are qualities both people may need to nurture as they build a life together.
The Role of Mentorship in Marriage
Masika’s message also brings attention to the value of mentorship, particularly for people navigating major life decisions.
Learning from someone with experience can offer perspective, help couples identify potential challenges and encourage honest conversations about expectations before marriage. For some, guidance from trusted mentors can also provide a space to discuss the realities of commitment beyond the excitement of a wedding.
However, the ongoing reactions suggest that audiences are also interested in how such guidance is framed, who it targets and whether men are being encouraged to take part in similar conversations.
A Debate Bigger Than One Masterclass
The mixed response to Masika’s announcement highlights the different ways people understand marriage preparation. Some may welcome programmes designed specifically for women, while others believe the conversation should give equal attention to the responsibilities of husbands and wives.
The debate does not necessarily mean that women-focused mentorship has no value. Rather, it raises a question about whether preparing for marriage should be treated as an individual responsibility or a shared process in which both partners are equipped to contribute.
As conversations around relationships continue to evolve, the response to the masterclass shows that many people want discussions about marriage to reflect the realities and expectations faced by both men and women.
Marriage preparation can begin with one person, but building a lasting partnership takes two. Should relationship classes for women and men be given equal attention?
