Taking someone out for the first time is something that should be special and appealing, don’t mess it up, cause this is the very thing that will decide If the Courting will proceed or seize.
Make it simple, casual and fun.
There are a couple of places I’d advise you not to take your partner to on your first meet up.
1. Movie Cinema.
Yeah, If you’ve seen each other on a number of occasions, YES!. But for the first time, NO! The first date means you’re going to learn each other, how are you going to do that by taking her to the movies? Watching a movie in a dark room quietly?. Delete this.
2. Hill Climbing.
You don’t know someone well enough, and you want to immediately introduce them to your hobbies?. There’s high chances that maybe they don’t like it or might not do it, don’t raise stakes on the first date, that time will come.
3. A Bar.
Okay you were looking for a place to sit and talk, but a bar is not a good idea, what if you forget yourself and over drink and then what?. Your first impression to a lady is always very important, don’t mess that up.
4. Their Bash party.
This could be mostly their special day, maybe even their birthday. It’s pretty obvious that there will be so many people turning up who know the person more than you do, and the last thing you want on your first date is divided attention.
5. Swimming.
It’s your first time and the first thing you want to see is each other, barely half naked. It’s not a good impression, what If the person doesn’t know how to swim you’re going to leave them on the bench cheering you up?
6. A wedding.
This is mostly not a good idea because the wedding will be filled up with family members, which of course will mean less attention.
7. Funeral.
I don’t even want to say anything about this. This is clearly a very bad impression. Am just going to pass. Like, who does that, you’re seriously going to have a lovely moment where people are grieving?
8. Your Place.
Bad Idea wouldn’t work. You are just starting to know each other, everyone knows it’s not always a good idea. Unless your intentions lie elsewhere.
9. A Museum.
Well this will depend on how your partner thinks of it but don’t prioritize it some people are even so scared of getting close to a hen what do you think seeing a reptile on their first date will do?. Tread Carefully.
10. A Double date.
You want to roll out with your mate, and you think to yourself that this is a great idea. The first time really…. They are high chances that it won’t go well because you won’t open up to each other more than when you could’ve if it was just the two of you. Put in mind some other people are so very shy and secretive, you have got to respect that.
Good luck and make wise decisions.