Today I have prepared something small for you, don’t get nervous now it’s okay, I just want your relationship up and working before you start regretting investing in it.

In codependent is one of the prime reasons here, this entails that needing your partner more often, in the sense that your decisions and judgements are influenced by your partner.

It’s a situation whereby one partner gives or rather contributes too much than the other and this right here, you and I know that this here is a serious red flag no school will teach you this, drop that crap that you are doing it in the name of love, it’s a two-way traffic and not the other way round.

Now here are some facts that you can be certain of that the relationship might be short-lived if you don’t do something:

1. Fond of Ignoring Stuff
This is why a lot of relationships break or don’t last because you are assuming something just because you feel like raising something will offend your partner if you really want it to work call it you’re the head there because assuming stuff will one day, it will pile up and in that I mean it might turn up on you someday this one is for sure.

If you’re doing this, you’re in a very bad state, my friend.

Also don’t stick in an abusive relationship, if you are in one it will definitely crumble someday.

2. Having anxiety feelings when you’re away from your partner
The fact that each time your partner leaves, you immediately break down, not necessarily physically but emotionally and mentally. This shows that you can’t be independent and that’s very risky, cause what if?

Your partner is also human and in other circumstances she or he might need time alone to work, spend time with friends if you see that as wrong, then you might be frustrated and of course we all know where that will lead.

3. Wanting Your partner to deliver as you do.
Actually on this one, others are different you have to take them the way they are and there’s nothing you can absolutely do to change them.

It might be you are the one calling all the time texting and there are late replies this one is something else consider doing yourself a favour or else you won’t like the results later on.

You will be drained and exhausted you are in a relationship that you are not happy in, nobody surely wants that.

4. Apologizing first when you know you’re clean
Not only does this show you’re a clown but also under control because now because you love your partner so much, and you fear that if you piss them off they might end up getting upset and so to avoid that you always want to clean for them even when it’s their fault!.

Let them also own their mistakes and apologize, that’s when one truly sees there’s togetherness and love if that is not done then be certain that you are dating yourself.! and it’s just a matter of time.

What about that day when you won’t? What would that mean? it’s risky, and it clearly shows that you are living the moment unsure of tomorrow you can’t live like that.