It’s good to be in a relationship, but very much wrong to be in an abusive one. Nobody deserves to be treated wrongly or bullied around just because you are together.

Here are some of the signs of unhealthy relationship.

1. Fear
If you are getting scared of your partner, then that there is a clear sign that the relationship will not work, you are supposed to be free with each other and share everything freely without having fear or any forms of doubts towards each other. If none of that happens, then it means you are not going in the right path.

2. Humiliation
Being lovers, you should have each other’s backs and stand for each other under no circumstances should you feel forgotten despised pushed off like for example being made fun of in public even if it’s said funnily that is a red flag.

Your partner has no right to toy with your emotions and should at all times defend the feelings she has for you. Again, if this is what happens when you are around your partner and maybe friends, do yourself a favor before it gets worse.

3. Raising Voices
Quarrels and threats are not signs of a good relationship. If the two of you love each other then you should not raise your tone.

If your partner shouts at you and cautions you in a weird way like wanting to take custody of something if you don’t abide by their terms, this is completely a sign of an abusive relationship, and you should consider distancing yourself before harm befalls you.

4. Physical Abuse
This is very much known by almost everyone that harassing or beating your partner is against the law, and it is always advisable to report such an incident. If your partner does beat you up or push you around, you should consider telling it to someone who can be of help, some say it’s the nature of marriage that it happens and with time it blows away… No, it’s always advisable if you have issues have a good way of settling them talk them down you have no right to endanger the life of your partner even if she or he is guilty.

Consider reporting it and don’t sit on it.

5. Intimidation
This involves having a unique way to communicate to someone whenever they have bored you some others don’t look you in the eye and tell you, they instead do something to piss you off like going into the kitchen and breaking stuffs. It’s like sending a message to the person that you should stop doing this or what you’ve done is wrong they kind of freak you out, create a different kind of mood in the room this shows that you are not free with each other, and it’s a sign of an abusive relationship.