Kenyan comedian Oga Obinna has advised women to make sure they are financially stable before getting pregnant.
Speaking in an interview sit-down he had alongside Lucy Mworia, he reminded ladies that despite having a partner, they should first ensure that they can be able of taking care of their child and themselves all alone without depending on anyone before getting pregnant because they first have to think of the worst.
“Before you decide to get pregnant for that man, be sure that with or without no man in the picture, you can take care of that child and yourself.” Oga Obinna shared.
She also urged couples to not involve their little infant in their issues as they have nothing to do with it, adding that it is better if they set their issues aside and raise their child, even if it means co-parenting from a distance rather than causing chaos.
Obinna, who is also a single baby daddy, urged baby mamas to not be bitter and ensure that all those who made them pregnant are held responsible and do their part as the parents of the child.
According to Obinna, the moment a child is born, a man’s priorities change. If you are a responsible man who wants the best for his child, women shouldn’t also rush into getting pregnant.
Obinna on Co-parenting with his baby mamas
He also talked about the challenges he goes through when co-parenting, saying that he has been put in a scenario whereby he needs to pay his baby mama’s in order to see them. He says he finds it hard. A while back, he shared this saying: In order to see his children, he has two options: one, he sleeps with the baby mamas, or second, he pays them. He always opts for the second option.
“Co-parenting is not easy. We are always fighting in my world; there are only two ways of co-parenting: either you sleep with your baby mamas or you pay them; otherwise, you will never see your kids, so I always opt for option number two.” Obinna explained.
Below is Obinna’s interview addressing Boychild and toxic baby mamas.