Kenyan popular pastor who was also once a comedian commonly known as ‘Man Kush’ has shared the reason why couples cheat in relationships.
Speaking in an interview with Obinna TV, he said the main reason why couples cheat is because of character and nothing else other than that.
“Before you get married, look at the character because it never changes. That’s why I always tell parents to mold their children when they are young.
About cheating and not cheating, it depends on your character.” Man Kush explained.
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He emphasized that intimacy alone doesn’t keep partners because if it did, then all prostitutes would’ve been married, and what does is actually their character—the character they often portrayed when they were young.
“I advise men and couples before they get married to make sure they look at the character someone has because it is what will determine their future. Character never changes; nobody’s born with character; we form the character.” Man Kush said.
Man Kush did also discuss why he wouldn’t harm or kill anyone who may have cheated with his wife in case he bumped them in the act at his own house, sharing two reasons why he would let it slide.
“Mimi hata nikikukuta hapo kwa kiti nakuambia toka nione kama hatarudi sawa nitakuambia toka uende usiwahi rudi.
Nikikuua, at this age, the law will punish me mercilessly, and I will not have gained anything.” Man Kush shared.
Asked if cheating should make one leave their partner, he responded by saying what the Bible says: “The Bible says you separate, not you divorce; until one feels the need to confess and forgive, you can come back.”