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Well when it comes to dating, people view it as an overwhelming and ‘trouble-never-ends’ task.

Have you been looking for a partner to go out with, to have a romantic link, someone who fits your checklist, a person for a long-term relationship, a casual partner, friends with benefits or just someone to hang out with? without really having to go through the tough trouble of looking for someone physically that even doesn’t suit your ‘perfect person’ need?

There are a lot of good dating sites and apps that simplify your work and enable one to have someone that he or she is compatible.

Below are some of the best-ranked dating apps for Kenyans and dating websites in Kenya:


It is commonly referred to as the ‘hookup’ app.
It is an online dating which enables its users to swipe either right to like or left to dislike other users’ profiles which consists of their photos, a brief description of who they are or like known as a bio and a list of their interests.
With 55 million matches to make, Tinder is regarded as the world’s most popular dating app. It matches singles in your area and around the world virtually.
To use Tinder, one must create a profile where you add your location, gender, age, distance, and gender preferences when you log in.
After that if you swipe right to someone’s profile then that same person does the same to your profile then both of you are regarded as a match hence you can start chatting with one another.
Well as they say, ‘it’s a match!!!’


Zoosk is one of the best dating sites that personalizes the dating experience to help singles find a person that best suits them.
Zoosk is commonly known as “behavioural matchmaking’ which study’s the user’s behaviour from who they like, who you message to determine who you might like and that person likes you back.
It is a place to meet new people in a fun and exciting way.

Bumble (For Confident Women).

This is a dating app that is believed to have changed the way people date, find friends and the perception of meeting online where women make the first move.
Only women are allowed to make the first move and she is required to send the first message. If the woman doesn’t send the first message within 24 hours after a match has been created, the match is regarded as lost or even if she messages and the guy doesn’t reply, the match is also lost and it disappears forever.
It inspires women to make the first move, to give them more power on the app.
If you view yourself as a confident woman, a woman of power, well this is it!!!


It is a free dating app operating online dating, friendships or people seeking to find someone special.
It allows you to create a profile and find matches based on your preferences. It also offers questions about yourself so that potential matches can learn more about you.
It has a tab known as a ‘cupid pick’ which is a match that the app algorithm picks for a person.
Finding a match on this app depends on what you are looking for and how active you are. If you’re looking for a serious relationship, and you’re willing to implement tips that improve your dating profile, you’ll likely find a match here.

E Harmony.

This one is best for them that are seeking marriage partners or serious relationships.
It matches couples based on ’29 dimensions’ of compatibility and interests which are determined by one answering a relationship questionnaire and personality test.
It is all about finding your true love online to match serious daters via an algorithm of in-depth questioning, which weeds out the impatient people while offering you specific daily matches within your location.


It is a dating app that is user-friendly that is termed as serious and not too serious.
It is the most widely-used dating site and is simple to create a profile and check out potential matches.
A user sends a few messages and then they both arrange to meet up for a date.
It allows one to access a thousand profiles and offers you the ability to chat to potential dates at the rate which works for you.
Well, your account or money is the main determiner.

Plenty of fish.

As the name suggests, it allows a user to access a large database of single people.
Users take a special test known as a Relationship Chemistry Predictor test which measures one’s self-confidence, family-orientation, self-control and easygoingness.
It is a great starting point for people who have not tried online dating before and would want to try it for free.


It’s the world’s most loved LGBTQIA2S+ dating and community app. It is regarded as a safe space for one’s self authenticity which allows people to find their people.
It ensures real connections which are made for queers by queers.
Here you meet like-minded people where you can share your story and meet your person without feeling deprived.


Are you tired of dating or just looking scrolling for people who finally never end up being meaningful to you?
It is a dating app designed for someone who wants to get on their ‘last first date’.
It is built on a belief that anyone looking for love should be able to find it.
It is good for younger singles specifically those who are looking for a more casual dating experience.

There you have it, folks, sign up for one of these top dating sites and apps to maximize your chances of getting your perfect match.

BY: Lyne Gatwiri.


Kwani Pesa Will Keep You Warm at Night~ Habida Shares the Reason Why Having Men is a Must



Kenyan actress, musician and writer Habida has opened up and revealed the reason as to why having a man is a must.

Speaking during an interview with our very own Journalist Silva Kido, she said that as far as it is not a necessity to many, having a man in their life is essential because they might need one in the long run as it is always that way that a woman has to have a man in the long run so that they help each other in making life easier and bearable.

“You definitely need a man to go through life with, that’s how we were created man woman…all these women who are saying I don’t need a man are lying.” Habida said.

According to her, All women claiming they can stand alone are completely lying and there’s no such thing that they are well off, She believes all women need men for companionship as well as help in providing for their needs.

She also shared her perception about marriage, hinting that as far as marriage isn’t easy and one should persevere, it doesn’t mean that one should stay in a toxic kind of relationship or marriage that isn’t contributing to their happiness.

She advised women to not have second thoughts about exiting a toxic marriage, especially one that they have tried all they can and has failed.

“One thing I’ll say is take care of yourself……. Us we were taught in our time kuvumilia…. But things I’ve changed… Men have changed and what women suffer is a bit crazy, so obviously don’t stay anywhere where there’s trauma.

But also don’t go too quick to give you have to make sure you’ve done everything you can so that Ukitoka hapo…….”

She also explained that divorces are not only happening on top celebrities and artists alone they are everywhere and the reason as to why they are not being recognized is because for the public they are not being watched by the camera and posted for anyone to see but indeed people are partying ways way more than even the celebrities are.

This year recorded quite a number of top Kenyan influencers and celebrities breaking up out of different reasons, and that doesn’t look to have been the end of it.

She called out to the Kenyan influencers, urging them to not post everything that happens in their life on social media because of the number of people who are looking up to them, she feels like what the celebrities post on their pages truly influence other people’s life either positively or negatively urging them to be considerate.

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How To Know If You Are in a Situationship



The majority are still trying to understand what friends with benefits entail as well as how they can describe a scenario in which they are in a dating situation.

We can break down the meaning of the word situationship as a romantic relationship that is undefined or not.It’s where two people are more than friends and are even physically intimate but are not really in a committed relationship, and they don’t impose any expectations on each other.

They can be long-term or short-term ones; although others prefer being in them, they fear being in a commitment. Some people might choose to be in a situational relationship out of a desire for emotional or physical intimacy without expecting to give out anything in return; many like to refer to it as safeguarding one’s interests, especially when it comes to feelings.

We can scale it down to understanding that relationships are typically more serious and involve a commitment to each other, whereas situations are more casual, ambiguous, and lack a clear direction for where they’re headed.

Below are some of the headlines that will let you know you are in a situation:

Avoidance of Labels
It’s actually a common practice. If you don’t like calling each other romantic names, then your relationship is not ideal, and it comes down to saying you are not seriously dating.

If you’ve been going out for several months now but your partner still avoids talking about your relationship status every time you bring it up, it could be a sign that he doesn’t want to have a serious relationship with you.

Your partner is not exclusive to you.
Since situational relationships are not clearly defined, it’s common for partners to be engaged in relationships with other people.

That scales down to: if you want a serious relationship, or rather, if you are ready to commit yourself to the relationship, then the other party should as well be ready to drop all the other friends they were seeing each other with and concentrate on you. If they are not ready to do so, then consider something else.

No Consistency
In anything that’s done in life, there should be consistency; otherwise, it is as good as dead. If your relationship lacks the consistency that real relationships have and you and your partner are on and off all the time, then you are in a situation where you should take your leave unless you want to remain there.

No Future Plans
The thing with most situational relationships is that they’re usually all about living in the present without much stress about where you two are headed.

If you are at a point where you want a long-term relationship but your partner is not ready to make future plans with you, he probably doesn’t see a future with you and is comfortable with your current situation for as long as it lasts, and he’s unlikely to change his opinion.

One-way traffic
Most situations are one-sided, and in most cases, one partner is often more invested in the relationship than the other partner.

Should it happen that you are struggling to see that you are keeping your relationship alive all through, then that is a situational scenario.

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“I am Still a Girlfriend” ~ Nadia Mukami Talks About Her Relationship With Arrow Bwoy



Kenyan artist Nadia Mukami has shared her relationship status with Arrow Bwoy, hinting that she is still her girlfriend and has not yet changed her status to being her wife.

Nadia Mukami & Arrow Bwoy

Speaking outside the JKIA airport after landing from the US, she said that she is still Arrow Bwoy’s girlfriend because he hasn’t finished paying the dowry yet.

“I am still a girlfriend…kwa sababu bado hajalipa mahari kwa sababu hata kwa ma uncle wangu itakua vibaya nikisema vingine kwa camera.”

The ‘Maombi’ hit maker said that it would be disrespectful to say otherwise in front of the press, and he hasn’t delivered on his end as he would be disrespecting her clan members together with family.

She hinted that earlier this year they had planned to do a traditional marriage, but the plan didn’t go according to plan, and she has left it to him to decide when they will do the weeding.

Asked If she would be contributing to her own wedding, she responded, saying that she would only do that if it had to do with things that involved women alone and wedding decorations, but dismissed the part that had anything to do with helping pay the dowry.

Nadia won the award as the best female artist in East Africa and urged artists to support each other and keep clapping each other until their moment comes instead of hating and beefing with each other.

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