Kenyan musician and businesswoman Esther Akoth, widely known as Akothee, recently took to social media to share her thoughts on the complexities of relationships. In her post, the mother of five expressed her views on the difficulties of living with another person. She mentioned, “Living with another person can be a real challenge—people often struggle with it!”
Akothee reflected on how she never truly understood the complexities of Jennifer Lopez’s love life until she found herself in a similar situation. “I never truly understood the complexities of Jennifer Lopez’s love life until I found myself in a similar messy situation. She shared ”According to her, the reality is that you just have to pick your poison, swallow it, and move on.
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The public’s obsession with celebrity relationships
The mother of five also emphasized how the public is fixated on celebrity relationships, often seeing them as prime examples of dysfunctional relationships, rushed romances, fake dates, and delayed marriages.
She emphasized that while non-public figures also experience relationship issues, these problems are often amplified when they involve celebrities. When a celebrity’s relationship falls apart, it often becomes breaking news, and the world refuses to move on.
Moving Forward
Akothee urged people to stop investing too much emotional energy in celebrity relationships. She stated, “It’s high time people stopped investing their emotions in celebrity marriages and relationships. We will break up and disappoint you every day.” Her message is clear: while relationships are challenging, they are a part of life for everyone.
She concluded by extending her best wishes to Jennifer Lopez, advising her to stay put and do what her heart wants, be it going back to Ben.
“Mama, don’t leave or come back to the market; just stay put. If you feel like going back to Ben and your heart still beats for him, call the divorce lawyers and tell them to put a pause on that nonsense for now.” Akothee advised. She also acknowledged that relationships require courage but emphasized that, despite the challenges, love is worth pursuing.