Kenyan Artist and Influencer Akothee has once again stepped up to help single mothers and fathers on what they should do in order to live peacefully.

The President of Single mothers has said that it’s very wrong when couples drag their children into their own issues as well, use children as leverage in order to get to back to their partners that they had initially disappointed over something. She went on saying that if such behaviors don’t change, then the coming generation will be affected and won’t grow up in a good, healthy environment.

“With this kind of spirit you will end up ruining if not your children’s life but also your own personal life… You will become toxic to every new person you meet…. It hurts, we are ruining our children’s lives, raising bitter generations.”

She has urged the Government to step up and come with laws that will help make co-parenting easier, as well as hold those making it hard accountable.

“I think Governments should come up with strict rules on co-parenting with Zero dramas and even arrest the parent causing drama and even arrest the parent causing drama.”

Urging all couples to stop being a burden to each other, especially their children, and respect each other’s personal space.

She then scripted down 10 points that single mothers should abide:
1. Avoid unnecessary demands.
2. Take Care of your children without demanding for support if you can afford it.
3. Agree on terms of visitations.
4. Tell Him/ Her you are not interested and not ready for any drama nor negative discussions.
5. Limit your communication and attachments to friends you commonly shared, they carry gossips.
6. Don’t stalk him/her on social media.
7. Block anyone bringing info’s from both ends.
8. Allow children access their parents, unless it’s getting ugly.
9. Talk only positive things about your partner around your children, or just don’t mention at all.
10. Let them find out by themselves that daddy/mommy isn’t supporting them, don’t be the transmitter.