Well relationships are a good deal but when you don’t do the right thing and when it is not a two-way traffic then it becomes as good as dead.
Men are always known for their great value and care when it comes to treating a lady they really want, they will stop at nothing to ensure that she is happy, even if it entails sacrificing their time to make them happy. And so the ladies should also be willing to do the same, not as entirely, but they generally gotta also show up for their men.
There are three keys to success of a relationship which is: Constant Communication, Sacrificial denial and Commitment.
Today I’ll walk you through with some tips that you shouldn’t do as this may cost your relationship.
1. Being Arrogant.
Actually this is mostly seen in women but of course some men a times do it but to ladies always try to control your emotions, and consider talking it through like adults. There’s no point of being so arrogant time and over again, some day they will get tired and leave you. There’s no such thing like that’s how I am, cut that shit!!
Disrespect goes a long way to send a signal as a red flag for any man, and nobody would want to take someone whom will be all abusive and causing drama in their house.
Women, men need peace of course thus applies to men as well don’t shout at your woman.
2. Simping.
Everybody really knows what this is if you don’t, it’s calling and texting too much if when your partner is showing disinterest in responding back.
And the only people who do this are idlers in the sense that you have too much time and little to do and now because you of course have a partner you keep troubling them with messages and video calls even when they are maybe busy.
This might cost your relationship because they might get bored with you at that moment and even end up blocking you be always considerate and don’t get upset, just understand that they ain’t free as you are and try finding something that will keep you busy. Of course, this doesn’t mean that you won’t be keeping tabs.
3. Filing Complaints always.
There’s nothing bad like dating someone who complains every minute even when you are doing something right, they are always like what if we tried this…..? Such people are called ‘Ingrates’. And with no time you will be left standing all alone complaining.
If something is not right with the both of you consider meeting up and talk it through no matter how upset you are don’t ever raise your tone, just go easy on it and try to find solution on what is not going right. If you cannot do that, then consider working on yourself, maybe you are the problem.
4. Lacking Boundaries.
If you are one of those people who goes around gossiping and talking about others then that shows that you can’t be trusted, and your partner won’t share their secrets with you because you will expose them and such a person it’s just a matter of time before things fall out of hand for them.
Note# Keep your friends and family out of your relationship if there’s an issue, talk it through with her or him.
5. Comparison.
This is one of the dangerous things that one could ever try to do, this applies to all men if you try going to your lady and telling her that that lady is Superb than her, she will feel abused in some way.
The same goes to ladies don’t tell your man that he isn’t better than the other one you’ve just seen as far as that may be true, why not work it out with your partner to be whom you want them to be.
Always be yourself, ride your own wave and Good luck folks.