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10 Toxic traits that Sabotage Relationships

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A toxic person can be described as one who causes distress in others feelings and their lives through negative words and actions.

Below are some traits of toxic people:

1. Lack of empathy.

This type of person struggles to grasp the meaning or depth of others’ feelings and thoughts, and they act on their own conscience, like they literally don’t care about anyone except for themselves.

2. They are very reckless.

Reckless individuals don’t consider the impact or danger that certain actions might have on others or even themselves. They tend to do things because they feel like it needs to be done without thinking about how the other party would be affected.

3. Negativity

Negative people are prone to complaining and ruining positive moods or outlooks. They will often complain and see the world as a cold, cruel place. What other way can this be described any better? 

4. Dishonesty

Someone who is dishonest has a tendency to not tell the truth. They will lie and ultimately mislead others. This is actually the last thing you want in your relationship—someone who doesn’t come clean about certain matters.

5. Quick to anger

More especially if they have a bad temper. I mean, they are those who are dealing with these kinds of humans, but it is always good to tread carefully if you already have that chance to choose. Someone who is quick to anger may become upset faster than others, who are often not offended at all.

6. Laziness

Lazy people usually lack motivation or drive when it comes to finishing tasks. In the workplace, they might not do things simply because they don’t want to. What do you think they will do when it comes to relationships that need sacrifice and commitment?

7. Stinginess

Yeah, that’s right. If you are going to live together happily, not necessarily in relationships or marriage, but even with each other as brothers and sisters, you will need to be able to share what you have with people; otherwise, it will become hard to live and relate with people.

A refusal to share possessions, time, money, and so on is often the telling trait of a stingy person. 

8. Thoghtlessness

Thoughtless people don’t consider their impact on others. For instance, if someone entrusts you with a secret and you are thoughtless and tell someone else, that clearly shows you won’t keep your house together.

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9. Bossiness

A bossy person will take charge of a situation or demand control even when they hold no authority nor have experience or knowledge on a certain subject; that is another trait of a toxic person, one who is always greedy for power.

10. Aggression

This one is actually very direct and self-explanatory, like it is obvious these are people who use a rather different approach to address matters, and mind you, it can get really bad, depending on the person. They usually tend to use intimidation, force, and hostility to control someone else. Their aggression can also be physical, verbal, or even emotional.

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