Kenyan media personality, YouTuber, and comedian Oga Obinna has revealed the struggles of having baby mamas.
Obinna disclosed that when it comes to baby mamas, you can either find a good one or a bad one. You will be lucky if you find a good one, which is rare.
“Baby mamas, you either find a very good baby mama or a not very good baby mama. If you find a very good baby mama, you are lucky.
If you find a not-very-good baby mama, there are two things involved: you either pay her or you sleep with her. If you sleep with her, you are safe. If you pay her, you are safe. If you don’t pay or sleep with her, there are two things involved.” Obinna said.
Obinna goes on to say that it is normally tough when you separate from the woman who has your child because what they normally want is to know what they will benefit from the separation.
Obinna’s advice to men
Obinna advised all baby daddies to ensure that they meet all their children’s basic needs without wondering why the mother is not contributing to any of it.
He goes on to add another challenge: that the baby mama’s always use the child to get benefits from the father even after their separation, advising all men to be cautious.
He also said that the man’s success is also a weakness because it is what women always target: wanting to associate themselves with you, but the other way around if the man’s poor. Urging all men to ensure that their baby mamas succeed in life, as that will mean less trouble for them.
“If you have a baby mama and you guys are not in good vibes, hope and pray you fail in life; she will not bother you… But if you become successful, most of them will look at you and wonder, Why am I not attached to his success? I either be attached to it or I bring it down to where he was.” Obinna said.
