Amber Ray has ignited fresh online drama after exposing private messages from comedian Oga Obinna that she labeled “deeply disrespectful.” In the screenshots, Obinna appears to suggest Amber meet a wealthy friend over coffee — an invite she claims crossed boundaries and disrespected her as a woman and public figure.
Highlights
- Amber Ray shared DMs from Oga Obinna, revealing he asked her to meet a rich friend
- The messages date back to 2022, but she said the disrespect stuck with her
- Obinna later made flirtatious comments, suggesting she might “fall in love”
- Amber used the moment to speak on boundaries and self-respect for women
- Public reaction has been divided, with many backing Amber for speaking out
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The influencer and businesswoman shared old Instagram DMs from Oga Obinna that began with a casual “Hey” before escalating to a pitch to meet a “very rich friend” for coffee. Amber, unimpressed by the vague proposal, declined and said any business proposal should go through her management.
When Amber didn’t warm up to the idea, Obinna shifted gears and tried to flirt. In one message, he wrote:
“Chipo me then ghost me abeg. Or you’re scared you might fall in love or get addicted?”
In her post, Amber condemned the exchange, saying:
“That message was deeply disrespectful. Just because I’m confident doesn’t mean I’m available.”
She added that she should’ve blocked him back then, but now sees it as a teachable moment — especially for her young daughter who she wants to raise with strong boundaries and self-worth.
Oga Obinna’s Silence
As of now, Obinna hasn’t directly responded to the leaked messages. But netizens are already reacting — some defending Amber for exposing the pressure women face in silence, others questioning why she waited this long to speak out.
Amber Ray’s move reminds us that setting boundaries isn’t just self-care — it’s survival, especially in a world where not everyone respects “no.
